the 80/20 rule for evrything. .
be it r/s, skills, work
quote from a comment:
there will always be give and take in a relationship. Just because you have to give a small percentage when you really want to take doesn’t mean you should step away from all that you are given. Step back and look at everything you have and be thankful for it. If you are not getting what you need then maybe re-evaluate and communicate with your significant other. You will never find someone that is 100% perfect.
A couple that truly loves each other will want to make the other person happy. So if that is the case, water your grass and fertilize it. You will have a lush green grass that others will want to mimic.
Healthy and functional
Honesty, communication, 80/20, separation, Respect and love for the self, for their partner and for the relationship.